Producing a higher perspective when trying to work out various personal problems, difficulties and dilemmas will require a certain courage not usually tapped into. We are such lazy, habitual creatures, we do not fancy to looking at things in a holistic manner. What do I mean? I mean we are way too quick to judge and condemn without having all of the interlocking elements which blur the lines of right and wrong. It all depends upon where, when, how, why and in what place we are standing,sitting or flying in the moment. No way can a disgruntled situation be resolved from the level of understanding where it occurs. No matter how much we would want things to be different than the actually are, {the truth is: we DO NOT know how they actually are}, we usually fall back on old habits of superficial, instant response. Let us face it, another day! When having to confront a troublesome matter, the fact remains: we are incapable of meeting ‘head on’ a perilous situation without gaining proper distance from the emotional deluge. Rationality flees IF cornered in the same room with disturbed “feelings”. So, what do we need to do? Take flight, vacation, break for period of silence. Do whatever necessary to dismount the horse of immovability and incompatibility. It is better than being “rode hard and put away wet”.